The cruel joy of condemnation

michelle-rodriguez-girlfightRound up, round up

gather round, gather round

it is time to judge the dysfunctional

even the mad ones do

if we have succeeded where you have not

we’ll throw the pitch and tar

round up, round up,

gather round, gather round

easier to chuck stones even as we inhabit

our own hypocracy and glass houses

damn those considered weaker than us

for we can tred water and you cannot

(and they wonder why the depressed often die)

taking their lives as you would

walk off an edge just to stop

the scold

the approbation

the cruel joy of condemnation

 

I have long wanted to understand

the thrill of hurting another because you CAN

it passes me by, seems nothing more than

squashing a fly because of your size

what cowardice in that !

thinking of the playground

how we grow but remain treading mechanics of cruelty

those kids who would spot the weakest

single them from the pack and throw rocks

did not know the damage they caused

every year hence, disturbing growth

perhaps it is wrong of me to wish

to return and throttle their skinny necks

how is cruelty resolved by violence?

yet the passive do rise within themselves

seeking retribution

 

that’s what it took when an ugly boy with red hair and freckles

and a thick Irish accent decided I was his prey

I tried to be patient for a time

when I saw on his face the sick gratification of a smile

at hurt inflicted

there was no reason or ignoring could fix it

I swung my arm as hard as I could

just like the day I tried out for rounders

and hit a curve ball

his jaw made a whacking sound and a click

something unnatural about it

burning pain shot down my arm and into my mouth

as if I had swallowed his aggression just for a moment

his face swelled and grew red before his cry

I noticed how good it felt to stand above him

looking down avenging myself

screaming at the top of my lungs

don’t ever touch me again or I will destroy you

he never did

and right or wrong

that day taught me whether I wanted it or not

sometimes rule books and morals miss

the playground solution to evil

 

if you’ve tried everything else

hit them with all you’ve got

don’t bow your head and say

thank you boss I like it when you make me feel so awful

ever since if nothing else I can say

nobody will walk on me or hold me down

it might not be much but it’s something more

than the fear of being bullied, that sickness

in the morning as you wake

terror in your day ahead

sometimes there is no good outcome

much as we try to use our intellect

the savage side of us can protect against

those who like hurting for no reason

 

how can you fight absurdity with sense?

we are given fists, and I do not regret

the blood on mine

antithetical to almost everything I believe

when we are pushed to the edge

we react in kind

like with like

fire with fire

an eye for an eye

may leave the whole world blind

yes and still

come for me and I will

 

 

(A lot of people may disagree with this. But in the real world ‘reasoning’ with a bully doesn’t always work. Having tried everything and not having further recourse, with nobody to stand up for me, I stood up for myself. Was it morally or ethically any better than the bully? Yes, because it wasn’t what I wanted to start or finish but it had to end. This ended it. I have never regretted it. If it happened exactly the same again I’d do exactly the same again. What they don’t teach you in the karma and psychology books is the street rules, and what actually happens in real life. Even kids can be sadists, even kids can want to destroy a person for NO reason. Learning to stop that, is key to survival. I survived because I fought back. Condemn it, but in the same scenario, what would you have done?).

 

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Ricochet

mandala-tattoo-mandala-design-kreise-schulterShoulders, it is said

by men and women in white coats starched for effect

cannot freeze

nor can we die from heartbreak

until we do

mystery of life

so much further than test tube

scientific figure shifting in study

answers undiscovered

by pill poppers and devotees of

mechanical Gods

I told the doctor

look doc, my shoulder froze over like a lake

when my heart began to ache

it wasn’t the weight of a sofa pushed through a closed-door

inhabiting new space

I never was good at change

still my shoulder froze one summers day

now withered and mismatched I stand lopsided

few can really tell unless they look

closely

maybe that was the real intention

to stop skimming rocks over

smooth surfaces

but peer

deep

beneath

anyway doc …

have you got a script

to lend me a little

relief?

his eyes were the color

of my morning coffee and

regret filled them

I’m sorry young woman

you will have to wait

like all the plants and trees

birds and things

depending upon the sun

until it warms by gradual wind

for as much as you deny it

the frost has you by the throat

claiming your limber soul

it won’t relent if you take a warm bath or rub some salve

you will need to dig deeper

discover what pain holds

nailed by the shoulders

to the ice of regret

maybe by twisting, learning how to tear

yourself from your frame

you can alter your picture

shift strung decline

break out

do over

earn wings

gain altitude

escape

the capture of frozen shoulders

attempting to hold themselves still

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