Off kilter

30853828_1_lSociety told the woman

at 50 you cannot wear jeans

nobody wants to see your saddle bags

you should either get yourself stretched

or hide in a sack

they call it “Laganlook” but the truth is

men over a certain age ignore women of the same

culture makes invisible an entire swath

sure, 70-year-old males can re-make action movies

their wobbling muscles and toupee jolting

nobody wants to believe a woman over 50

desirable nay formidable other than as matron

or crone

that’s how it was

they said the female poets over 50 were lost

for all the ones known

many more forgotten and wind tossed

society stuck on youth

like a tick feeding off

some kind of strange timer

stuck on the first 25

but if you stand by the fire long enough

you will not stay warm you will burn

when it comes your turn

to eclipse o’er the hill

what will you have created to sustain you?

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21 thoughts on “Off kilter

  1. Beautiful and true.. the obsession and the thinking that youth equals beauty are so one-dimensional. Of course youth is beautiful, but it’s also ephemeral and that is another beautiful truth. People don’t reach the point of full bloom and wither from that day on. They bloom until their last breath, every day. Thanks for writing that!

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    1. Very true. I’m not ‘there yet’ in terms of age but I see ahead and I see how the stage is set and it just seems so lopsided and wrong. I also think some of the most exquisite people are older than 20 🙂 but that said, it’s about the person not the age I totally agree.

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  2. A lovely piece and sadly true. Why women are treated as such, I have no clue, they try hard throughout life to reach their goals, and once reaching to the peak point and being forgotten is a sad state of affairs.
    Thank you.

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    1. I think because they let themselves. I’m not blaming women en mass but they are their own worst enemies at times, the way they compete with one another. If we let that go and cared more for each other as women, and held each other up, I think it would change. I’m not discounting the accountability of men, because ultimately it probably began with them, but we ran with it. If we judge ourselves based upon how many men like us best, we’ll always fail. No gender should be put above another.

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